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		<title>How to approach any girl anywhere</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 15:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The simple things can sometimes seem the most difficult. Talking to someone, how hard can it be? Yet everybody knows the feeling where you&#8217;re in a bar or a club, or whatever &#8211; in the supermarket, and you see someone that looks cool. If only you can say something smart, funny &#8211; anything &#8211; to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The importance of practice</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 18:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago I was reading Outliers: The Story of Successby Malcolm Gladwell. It&#8217;s an interesting book in many ways, but of course now I want to talk about how it applies to dating.

Basically the book tries to find out why certain people have become outliers; exceptionally successful. For instance, it goes into the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The elusive click</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 19:17:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I want to tell you about the thing I like best in the whole dating game, or even, what is one of my favorite things in life. And for once, this is something that is actually easy to accomplish. You may even say&#8230; it&#8217;s all you need to learn.
All too often, a pickup attempt [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When to reply to an online dating message?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 09:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[online dating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, there&#8217;s so many rules, right? Don&#8217;t call within 3 days, don&#8217;t tell her you love her, don&#8217;t use an uneven number of words in a text message. Oh, aren&#8217;t we all little autistic scientists here, inventing the dating game?
A rule that hasn&#8217;t been well established (if I look at the search traffic to this [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Observe Observe Observe!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 17:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[be present]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The key thing about connecting with strangers is being present &#8211; not only physically (duh), but mentally. If you&#8217;re anything like me, you&#8217;re very likely to be just lost in thoughts half of the day. I may be at the train station, but in my mind I&#8217;m somewhere else.
There&#8217;s no way you can make a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Cool movie &#8211; Death Proof</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 13:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love this dialogue. Kurt Russel as Stuntman Mike in Death Proof.
Not to over-analyze this stuff, but check out the story-telling, the emotional detachment (well, he is a psycho killer after all) , the &#8216;I know how you work&#8217; and the challenging.

(here&#8217;s the amazon link)
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		<title>How much age difference is acceptable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 13:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It depends. First of all, on your personality and phase in life, and how that relates to hers. Then it depends on what others will think of it. But well, that doesn&#8217;t really help does it? What we need science, bitches: some math. Barnabus Stinson delivers: I just picked up &#8220;The Bro Code&#8221; &#8211; (a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Now this is pickup</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:45:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tom Waits hitting on a HOT chick at a party. Watch and learn. It does not get better than this.
(pic links to youtube video)
Waits: &#8220;You know I&#8217;m a doctor&#8221;
Waits: &#8220;I do, ah&#8230; laser hair removal, I do&#8230; acupuncture, I do&#8230; aromatherapy, that type of thing&#8221;
Waits: &#8220;Would you like something sweet?&#8221; (offers sweets) &#8220;Go ahead, take [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How (not to) fail at dating</title>
		<link>http://youcantdate.com/?p=228</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[pickup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[basics]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Posted a new article today: How to FAIL at dating. Guys who try to get better at picking up girls usually fail because of these few reasons. My point is that if you get the important things right, the rest doesn&#8217;t really matter. Focus first on meeting more girls, be comfortable at approaching them, radiate [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Looking good: the basics</title>
		<link>http://youcantdate.com/?p=210</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:53:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jim</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[mindset]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I must admit I have been a bit reluctant to write about appearances. I don&#8217;t want this blog to turn into a male version of Cosmopolitan and all. It&#8217;s an important subject though, and it will improve your game. I&#8217;ll thus keep it short and to the point.
Looking good is quite easy for guys. Yet [...]]]></description>
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