Tag: basics
How (not to) fail at dating
by jim on Mar.16, 2009, under pickup
Posted a new article today: How to FAIL at dating. Guys who try to get better at picking up girls usually fail because of these few reasons. My point is that if you get the important things right, the rest doesn’t really matter. Focus first on meeting more girls, be comfortable at approaching them, radiate some attractiveness, look your best, ask her phone number and call her for a date. Don’t focus too much on technique and details like “don’t call within 3 days”, “don’t ask, but demand a phone number”, “Lean-in to magically create attraction”, and all that shit.
Those things may make some sense, but it makes much more sense, and will get you much more results if you first get the basics right. Then you can either forget about the details and just do you thing (which I recommend), or go all out and read every pickup book ever written.
